Is there a website where i can connect with gay men in the military stationed oversease and be penpals?
I’m sure that there are many sites that may help you with looking for a pen pal in the military, but for them to be gay, that one is going to be difficult.
Here is a site for you to get started.
I’m warning you, the military will read the incoming and outgoing mail for and security leaks. If a letter is seized and it states that the solder is gay, then that solder is in very big trouble.